In the beginning God created Adam and Eve (or not, depending on which spiritual beliefs you subscribe to - but work with us for the sake of the metaphor). Unfortunately, Adam wasn't so great at pleasing his woman, a trait he has allegedly passed on to much of his progeny. As a result, Eve and her descendants had to learn how to take care of business themselves, and now 3,000 odd years later, we've gotten a little bit of help.
If you've never visited AdamEveToys.com, do so now. Be forewarned, it's not the best site to surf when you're sitting at the front of a giant lecture, or at your congressional internship... but if you have some alone time, definitely take a look. Basically, the site offers a plethora of adult toys, which we firmly believe women should make more use of. During a discussion with several friends the other day, many admitted they had "never touched themselves down there" and thought the idea of a vibrator was "like so weird." But we are here to tell you ladies- this is not the case!
The use of a vibrator, dildo, or other type of masturbatory toy is completely healthy (especially if you have a long distance boyfriend or a touch of nymphomania after watching any movie involving Matt Damon). These are not objects that should be shunned, but rather enjoyed by the female masses. Using one doesn't make you "gross, weird, a slut, kinky" or any of the above things that our Protestant ancestors used to describe Hestor Prynne. When used correctly, they can be a healthy and pleasurable alternative to sex with a partner.
For those who are wary, or just uninformed, here follows a description of several pleasure toys:
Vibrators
The pocket rocket, bullet, mini rabbit and massager, we love them all! According to Wikipedia (hey, this isn't a term paper... it's totally cool if we use it) a vibrator is a device which can allow a woman to achieve orgasm faster and more effectively than with manual stimulation. Some are double pronged to hit the clit and the vagina, some have cords, and some can be attached around the legs to leave your hands free for other activities. Here at KitC, we are solidly behind the bullet. Small, cordless, and battery powered, this little guy is perfect for beginners. Best used for clitoral stimulation, you can achieve climax several times in one sitting if you so choose.
Girls.. if you've never had a real orgasm, we strongly encourage you to try one out. Sometimes you just need a little extra help to burst the dam and make your body realize what it's been missing. In my own experience, a little mechanical help every now and then actually makes orgasming with a partner much easier.
Click here to check out our favorite model.
Dildos
Now if you've never used a toy before, you probably don't want to start out with one of these babies. Phallic in representation, they can be used for vaginal, clitoral, or even anal stimulation. They can be great for use with a brave (and sexually confident) partner, and to hit your own G-spot. If it's strictly for personal use, we recommend getting one that vibrates, as that's usually what helps one to achieve climax.
We suggest this one, which provides length, girth, and some lovely vibrations.
Being the pro-sexual women we are, we are constantly taken aback when girlfriends admit to never experimenting with themselves. "How can she possibly expect a boy to know what she likes if she doesn't even know?" Not to get too cosmopolitan on you, but masturbation is an important factor to understanding your own sexuality. We all know guys do it all the time, and we're here to tell you, women can too.
It's also incredibly empowering to not need a man to take care of you in that capacity. Empowering and a major turn on for dudes (not the point, but an excellent cherry on top). Penises are easy. They chill out on the outside, and are taken care of with literally a flick of the wrist. We know it, men know it. Women require so much more nuance in that department. Especially because every one of us has our own special kinks and spots. Being able to tell him exactly where and how is almost a guarantee that he will get you there.
Besides, guessing games and wikipedia instructions are not nearly as fun. We can assure you of that.
Love from the Capital,
R & D
pretty nice post. i like what you're doing.. and i loooooooove my vibrator!
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